When you’re unfamiliar with the world of sex toys, learning how to operate a vibrator can be intimidating. Vibes come in a huge variety of styles, each with a wide range of uses and materials…
A vibrator is a good place to start when establishing a sex toy collection, whether you’re wanting to acquire your first one to improve solo play or you want to add something new to partnered play.
To learn everything you need to know before using a vibrator for the first time, let’s delve deep into the world of vibrators.
YOUR ULTIMATE GUIDE TO VIBRATOR USE
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HOW DO VIBRATORS WORK?
An electric vibrating gadget called a vibrator is used to stimulate sexual desire during unaccompanied or coupled sex. Vibrators come in a wide variety of forms, and each one can provide one or more types of stimulation:
clitoral stimulation from without
vaginal stimulation internally
combined vaginal and clitoral stimulation
stimulating the sperm
prostate stimulation both internally and externally
WHAT TYPES OF VIBRATORS EXIST?
You can choose from the seven most common varieties of vibrators. There is undoubtedly enough to please every palate.
One of the greatest options for beginners is a bullet vibrator.
It is a small, covert vibrator for external stimulation. They often are silent and reasonably priced. Since the MIA 2 bullet vibe is made to resemble lipstick, it is ideal for travel or for people who don’t have a lot of toy storage.
A BULLET VIBRATOR’S USAGE
The use of bullet vibrators is simple and adaptable. If you enjoy nipple stimulation, add water-based lubrication and hold the bullet over your genitalia. Then, make your way to your vulva and clit while moving the vibe in circles or up and down while holding it in your palm.
The bullet is fantastic because it’s so simple to use. It is simple to move in any direction while locating the ideal stimulation areas.
Additionally, the bullet can be excellent for external prostate stimulation for penis owners even if it is most frequently utilized as a clitoral vibrator for vulva owners.
To stimulate your prostate for greater enjoyment, use water-based lubrication and locate the sensitive region between your anus and scrotum. When prostate stimulation is used during intercourse, men may have numerous orgasms. Therefore, it’s absolutely worth a try!
A classic vibrator known as a “rabbit vibrator” rose to prominence in the 1990s after being originally described in Sex and the City. Rabbits are a terrific vibrator for simple mixed orgasms, so we can definitely see why Charlotte couldn’t get enough of it.
Even though the name implies that the vibrator should resemble a rabbit, not all of them do. In spite of having two contemporary design sleeves, one internal for g-spot stimulation and one external for clitoral stimulation, toys like SORAYA Wave and INA Wave 2 nevertheless have the traditional shape of a rabbit vibrator.
INFORMATION ON RABBIT VIBRATOR USE
Make sure you’re at ease and have water-based lubrication on hand beforehand. To ensure your comfort, get stimulated before inserting the rabbit.
Rabbits typically offer a wide range of stimulation options, including varied vibrational patterns, thrusting motions, spinning heads, and other small tricks. As you investigate, increase the setting from the lowest position.
Be patient; it could take some time to discover the ideal setting combination. Additionally, you can assist tame the feelings if the rabbit ears are too sharp over your clit by covering it with a blanket or some other material.
Toys that provide dual stimulation include dual vibrators. They may stimulate the g-spot both internally and externally, like ENIGMA or TIANI 3, making them comparable to rabbit vibrators. However, because of their distinctive shapes, their stimulation is more focused.
Additionally, there are vibes that simultaneously stimulate the clitoral, anal, and vaginal regions. The versatility of dual vibrators makes them ideal for both solitary and cooperative activity.
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EXPLANATION OF DUAL VIBRATOR USE
If you’re utilizing the dual vibrator solo, the procedure is really simple. Apply water-based lubricant when you’re ready, then insert the toy. Locate the ideal position so that it touches both the clit and the g-spot, and then set the vibe to the environment you enjoy the most.
Now, the procedure is the same if you choose a dual couple’s massager: apply lube and insert the toy during foreplay or right before penetration.
To up the ante, give your partner control of the remote so they may choose the vibration’s strength and pattern, keeping you on your toes at all times.
The wand is yet another vintage vibrator. Before individuals realized that the powerful vibrations feel better on their clit than on their backs, they were known as neck massagers.
The shape is typically a wand with a vibrating bulb at the end. It may provide extremely strong external clitoral stimulation and is comfortable to grip.
A WAND VIBRATOR’S USE
Wand vibrators are excellent for rapid orgasms and exploring various erogenous zones because they are typically rather powerful.
Try holding the wand against your neck, nipples, and lower tummy while the wand vibration is on the lowest level.
Apply a generous amount of water-based lubrication before touching your clit and vulva. The most delicate part should be circled first, then slowly inward.
Don’t worry if you discover that the wand vibrator is overly loud, even on the lowest level. The vibrator works just as well when worn over underwear or a second layer of cloth.
A wand-shaped vibrator called a “G-spot vibrator” is used to internally stimulate the G-spot. Like GIGI 2, it is typically tiny and has an accented end for precision targeting.
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GREEN SPOT VIBRATOR USE
Do not hurry into it, as with all inside vibrators! Make sure you’re awake and prepared. Set the vibe to the lowest position, liberally lubricate your massager with water-based lubrication, and then slip the toy within.
Find your favorite by experimenting with a range of intensities and patterns. To find the ideal form of stimulation, experiment with thrusting, rotating, and applying pressure to various locations on the vibrator.
To heighten the enjoyment, add clitoral stimulation from without. Blended orgasms win, hands down!
The G-spot vibrator can be used for purposes other than G-spot stimulation even though it was created for that purpose. Play around to see what feels the best. G-spot vibrations are ideal for clitoral stimulation due to their exact ending.
A prostate massager is made to stimulate the prostate both internally and externally. It may have two sleeves, one of which can be used for external stimulation like the HUGO and LOKI Wave, and the other of which can be attached for internal stimulation.
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A PROSTATE MASSAGER’S USAGE
Make sure you’re at ease and have plenty of lubricant on hand before utilizing a prostate massager. Place the item inside your anus, making any necessary adjustments and pauses. Turn the toy on and select your preferred vibe setting once it is snugly inside.
Combine penile stimulation with prostate stimulation for the heaviest orgasms.
COCK RING THAT VIBRATES
Another sort of vibrator for penis owners is vibrating cock rings. Like TOR 2, they often feature a vibrating head and are composed of silicone.
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A VIBRATING COCK RING USE GUIDE
A vibrating cock ring is simple to use. Fit it at the very bottom of your cock, right above the balls, on a semi-flaccid penis.
If you wish to stimulate your partner’s clitoris while having partnered sex, keep the vibrating head up. Alternately, flip it over and let the vibrations tingle your scrotum.
For external prostate stimulation, some vibrating cock rings can be positioned so that the longer vibrating head of the device reaches the region between the scrotum and the anus.
A VIBRATOR’S BEST USE FOR SOLO PLAY
To make using a vibrator the best it can be, here are some extra pointers and tricks!
CHARGE YOUR VIBE AHEAD OF TIME
You wouldn’t want to have your playtime interrupted, would you? So make sure to charge your preferred vibrator before using it to guarantee everything goes properly and you have plenty of time with it.
The amount of time it takes to completely charge the toy will vary depending on the brand. And you often get 2-4 hours of playing for that. There is enough time for numerous orgasms.
TURN IT ON.
There is no denying that everyone enjoys a quicky! However, if it’s your first time using your vibrator and you have a date, you may want to spend some time getting turned on before the date.
If you’re aroused, the feelings will be lot more enjoyable, and playing with the toy will be simpler. Make love to yourself. If you’re a visual person, you can watch moral porn; if you’re a reader, you can read erotica. Another excellent choice is audio erotica.
Start out slowly and use your fingertips to explore your body while avoiding the vulva and the clit until you are unable to control yourself any longer. Your vibrator should now start working.
CHOOSE THE IDEAL POSITION
The most stereotypical masturbation posture is lying on your back with your legs apart, but it’s by no means the only one.
When using a penetrative device like a rabbit or a G-spot massager, you should try with different positions to find which one gives you the most delightful experience.
Similar to when you engage in penetrative intercourse with a penis-owner, various positions will present various angles. A small adjustment, like as drawing your legs up to your chest while you thrust the object inside and outside, might have a significant impact.
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Here are some positions that might be worth trying:
On your knees: Keep your vibrator inside while kneeling. This position offers a deep penetration angle, similar to Cowgirl, which makes it feel fantastic.
When utilizing a bullet vibrator for external clit stimulation, you should lie on your stomach with one knee bent. Use your hips to grind against the toy while maintaining pressure with the hand holding the bullet over your clit.
Pillow under hips: Tilt your hips upward by placing a pillow under them. This is fantastic for using a penetrative vibrator to hit all the correct places.
USE IT IN PLACE OF UNDERWEAR
Use your vibrator over your underwear if the vibrations are too intense. The cotton or lace of your underwear may cause additional friction in addition to softening the sensations.
Additionally, soaking your underwear in front of your spouse while they watch you play with your vibrator can be really seductive!
DELIVER THE LUBE
We at LELO think there can never be enough lubricant. Therefore, for the finest feelings when using your vibrator, always keep water-based lubrication on available to apply to your body and the toy immediately.
Also, don’t be afraid to reapply the lubricant if you feel like you need it in the middle of the session!
TRY OUT DIFFERENT SETTINGS
Over time, sextech has undergone tremendous change. There are 10 different settings on a small, straightforward bullet vibrator, providing you plenty of room for exploration.
Try each and every pattern, speed, and action that your vibrator has to offer. You might even want to experiment with changing the vibration setting in the middle of the session to see whether that improves it or not.
Attempt it before a mirror.
It’s hot to masturbate in front of a mirror. It’s an excellent approach to learn about your body’s responses to stimuli. Mirror work can help you improve your body image and low self-esteem if you have any concerns about how your body appears during sex. A turn-on is watching yourself get off, as well.
USE OF A VIBRATOR DURING SESSION
Vibrators are fantastic because they are made for both sex with a partner and sex on one’s alone. Here are our suggestions to make sure your mate goes insane if you use it with them.
MANUAL FOR USING A VIBRATOR
MAKE BLOWJOBS AND HANDJOBS BETTER
Want to give your partner a blowjob or handjob they won’t soon forget? Then a cock ring that vibrates will become your new best buddy.
Before performing a BJ, place the vibrating cock ring over the semi-flaccid penis to increase the pleasure. The vibrating head should now be facing the scrotum as you turn it. Start with the lowest setting and gradually raise it.
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A terrific technique to utilize a vibrator on a man is to complement a happy ending or lingam massage. For internal prostate stimulation, you can either use a vibrating cock ring or a prostate massager.
You can use a bullet or a desire massager to intensify your partner’s body’s erotic massage feelings if you have them.
If they prefer nipple stimulation, press the vibe against their neck, back, and chest while giving their nipples a little additional attention. You might also wish to use a vibrator to test out the inner thighs and lower stomach.
SMS OF THE PROSTATE
To offer your spouse mind-blowing orgasms, use a prostate massager. Depending on the toy, place it within their anus for internal stimulation and rub the area behind their scrotum with your fingers.
You can direct all of your attention to the person’s penis and stimulate it with your mouth, your hands, or both, if the toy stimulates that area.
USE A VIBRATOR ON A WOMAN SAFELY
IMPROVE ORAL SEX
Having oral sex while receiving inside vaginal stimulation is enjoyable for certain vulva owners. If you typically massage your spouse with your fingers during oral, you may want to get a G-spot massager to add more stimulation.
You can also switch between your mouth and the vibrating device to spice up oral sex. Your spouse might find the combination of the stronger vibration from the vibrator and the milder stimulation from your tongue and lips to be very delightful.
Why not try having sex without touching each other? It can be incredibly enticing to watch your lover enjoy themselves with a vibrator. It also enables you to observe their preferred method of verbal enjoyment.
Use a blindfold to help your spouse create a more comfortable setting if they feel exposed while they play with themselves in front of you.
Depending on your interests and your level of comfort with communicating, you could even go as far as instructing each other on how to use the toy, what settings to use, and where to place it.
A technique for edging is to go on the verge of having an orgasm but stop yourself before it happens. Over and over again… It can be a terrific strategy to increase your partner’s orgasms during sex and it increases sexual tension.
It will be much simpler to push your lover to the “edge” with a vibrator while preventing an orgasm. Find out if your partner is interested in this strategy by experimenting with it.
THINGS TO CHECK WHEN GETTING A TOY
Vibrators sold on the market are not all created equal. When purchasing your first vibe, keep an eye out for the following:
Always go with a vibrator that is non-porous and marked “body safe.”
Porous materials such as polyvinyl chloride (PVC), jelly latex, jelly rubber, thermoplastic rubber (TPR), and thermoplastic elastomer (TPE) are not safe for the human body. Given how difficult it is to completely clean these materials, they may contain microorganisms.
Materials that are not permeable include:
Steel is stainless
RECHARGEABLE VS. BATTERY OPERATED
As you can see, some vibrators use batteries while others use rechargeable motors. Although battery-operated solutions are frequently more economical, affordable rechargeable ones are also available.
The difference between the two vibrators depends on the vibe, but generally speaking, rechargeable vibes are more rumbly while battery-operated vibes have a buzzier vibe.
After a while, a buzzy vibe may cause you to feel numb, which is a sensation some people try to avoid. The rumbly vibe usually has a deeper, more intense feeling.
Some vibrators only give one or two patterns, while others provide up to ten or more. Of course, more vibrating patterns and settings have their advantages; you’ll undoubtedly find a vibe that perfectly suits your preferences. Additionally, when you grow accustomed to your toy and try new things, it enables further experimentation.
WATER-RESISTANT VS. WATER-PROOF
You should think about if your vibrator is waterproof if you plan to use it in a bath, a shower, or a pool (whatever floats your boat!).
Waterproof vibrators can be used in the water without losing their functionality, whilst water-resistant ones can only be submerged in water for cleaning.
It’s not a good idea to slide with a water-resistant vibe in the shower even though you can avoid a direct water spray.
REMOTE-CONTROLLED OR APP
You may occasionally just want to unwind, relax, and let someone else handle the task. In such situation, an app or remote-control vibe would be something to think about.
App-controlled toys like the IDA Wave are made to properly fit the form of your body. As a result, you may settle into a comfortable posture and have some hands-free fun.
ASSORTS TO COMPLIMENT THE VIBE
You might want to take into account the following accessories for the optimum vibrator experience:
LUBE BASED ON WATER
More lubrication always makes sex, whether it be alone or with a partner, more enjoyable. Lube intensifies the sensations and significantly increases their enjoyment.
Always choose a water-based lube like LELO Personal Moisturizer while using a silicone toy. If you want your vibrator to last you for many years, it’s best to avoid using silicone and oil-based lubrication on silicone devices.
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CLEANER FOR SEX TOYS
It’s essential to take good care of your vibe to keep it in good condition and prevent infections. As a result, you might want to think about purchasing a sex toy cleaner like LELO Sex Toy Cleaning Spray that is specifically made for sex toys.
YOU’RE DONE WHEN
Always remember to clean your vibrator after using it to play. Either a sex toy cleaner or some warm water and antibacterial soap will work.
After giving it a thorough test with a soft cloth, place your vibrator in the pouch it came in, far from other sex accessories.
The material of your vibe can be harmed by dust and sunshine, therefore keeping it in a pouch helps to prevent these problems.
ADDITIONAL THINGS TO NOTE
Here are some safety measures you should be aware of when using a vibrator:
Follow the manufacturer’s directions while charging your vibrator for the first time.
Wear a condom over the vibrator when transitioning between anal and vaginal penetration to prevent the bacteria from spreading and reduce the chance of infection.
Consider using a condom while switching if you share a vibrator with your spouse to stop the spread of disease.
If a vibrator has an odd smell or the material’s look has changed, stay away from using it.
It’s not meant to hurt, after all! If you start to feel uncomfortable, pause and modify. Change the position or angle of the penetration and add additional lubricant. Get a different vibrator that works for you, if possible.